5 Reasons to Break Up With Someone Immediately
Written by Elessa, Posted in Dating
Life is hard enough let alone having to deal with the drama of bad relationships. Here are 5 reasons why you should leave them asap! I am not saying its for everyone but these are pretty extreme and happens all the time.
- Identity Theft.. or any other theft in fact. If your partner is stealing from you it is time to go
- No support during a pregnancy test. If you are alone taking that test while your partner is out having fun its time to consider alternatives. They aren’t there for you now they might not be there for you later. I mean I don’t expect them to watch you pee.. but you shouldn’t have to do this alone.
- Empty promises. If you can list /rattle off 10 things they promise you and nothing has happened.. let’s face it. It will never happen.
- Anger, if every time you bring up something oh like Cheating .. and they change the topic and become angry? Its time to go. They are hiding something and it might be much more than you want to know.
- Secretive facebook accounts and any other social media outlets. A lot of people live two lives soo if you see them doing things like this it might be time to investigate or have a heart to heart.
What is your break up point? Please share with us 
xx
Elessa
what if your boyfriend has been hiding stuff from you…every time he does it, you somehow lose trust. He gets mad when you ask questions, especially when he’s obviously hiding something. You find out about these things through his facebook account. You read things that you shouldn’t be reading, and find out he doesn’t tell you things when it involves a girl. His defense will always be “It’s nothing. I didn’t tell you ’cause I know you’d get mad or freak out”..basically his mentality is “what you don’t know can’t hurt you” especially if there really isn’t anything to worry about. But still…i’d rather know those things than find out he’s been lying to me.
Anyway, long story short…he’s guilty of hiding stuff from his girlfriend, BUT he’s not necessarily cheating.
I on the other hand have been really hard on him for the past few days. He doesn’t believe me that it’s the time of the month again for me….i get really sensitive and emotional when i have my period.I guess I overreacted when I found out the girl slept at his house and he didn’t tell me. I’m only human..i get jealous. In my book..these things should be told and not be hidden. Anyway, he’s been avoiding me and not answering my calls. He’s mad ’cause i opened his facebook account. I, however, am willing to lower my pride and admit my faults..that maybe I have been really hot tempered lately..but at the same time i want him to admit that he has faults as well. We finally talked the other day. I told him how I felt, but all the more he was insisting that I’m the only one at fault. It hurts that I’m compromising and willing to fix things, but he on the other hand can stand not talking to me…when in fact we’re both at fault here.
As days pass..i feel more hurt and numb. I feel like I’ve done my part. I’m still very sad and I miss him. I miss the good times.
I’ve been trying to reach out for days and it seems like he doesn’t even care. I’d like to think that in a relationship, both us should try to rationalize and try to weigh both sides of the argument. I really don’t know what to do anymore. Seems like he still doesn’t wanna talk. I guess I feel that it’s a bit unfair for him not to talk to me, since every time we argue I’m always willing to listen to his explanation no matter the gravity of the situation is.
I really believe communication is always the key to every relationship.
I guess my question is…since I’m a bit blinded by my feelings…does he really have a reason to get mad because i opened his facebook? I’m really not the type to check things. It’s just that he’s been giving me reasons to doubt him
and this is not the first time he did something.